stop the moans and we'll see.

stop the moans and we'll see.

this week has been so.. enlightening.

i have more new theories made up in my mind and honestly, i think most people know or have thought about these, but they just dont (dare to) say it. as usual. and like usual, i tend to do the dirty work. so be it, i am the mean bitch anyways, so here goes. i will try my best to illustrate my point. but i think you will understand better if you have met with similar incidents.



with no offense to anyone in particular, i have decided that singaporean guys or Asian guys in general, are such irritants. color coded to show groupings of species.

you know when one of them takes an interest to a girl and thus decided to woo (pfft.) her. and asks her out on a date and they did something which was the least impressive to the girl's perspective. and then, he decided that he has done enough slash so much (pfft.) to win her heart? i mean WHAT THE HELL? you think girls are such easy peasy that a lousy, unromantic date is enough for you to get us?

okay, you may say it's unfair for me to just decide for you guys reading this that the date was lousy and unromantic. but let me provide you with proof that it indeed is. think silence with some awkward lines of conversation. think a movie which acted as a relief for the girl cause she had absolutely nothing to talk to with the guy, and if they hadnt watched the movie, she would just die thinking she has to face him and the whole time not looking into his face, thinking about her excuse to leave early or checking out the guy at the barrister of starbucks instead.

so i admit, it may be cause the girl was not interested in the guy in the first place. so she was skeptical, and since that first impression failed, all else came crumbling and the guy couldnt impress her no matter what. but if the guy had performed better, the girl would have at least want to be friends with him even though nothing extra would come out of it. that, i am sure.

and here comes the main point why i am condemning these guys. you know after that one date, the girl decided that he is just-friends material and she put it nicely to avoid hard feelings. BUT the guy has to ruin all chances of befriending with moans about how much he has sacrificed for her. pfft, YAH RIGHT! think a few sms-es and missed calls and him thinking of her day and night (like we told him to do that!). the worst part is he has to tell you a story, on msn, about this guy who sacrificed so much for the girl he likes blah blah. oh sure, try to get us feel for that. like we dont know it is, in actual fact, YOUR story and a ploy to make us feel guilty.

COME ON. do you really want us to pity you and then go out with you? have some dignity! we dont like guys who are this pathetic. tsk.


as far as i know, girls like guys who are confident and fun. who arent like sick puppies who lie on our feet and beg. i like guys with dignity and know how to treat a girl with restrain; alternating between the ego and the sweet-thoughtful.

it's hard to achieve, but there are guys like that. and i think i am going to wait for one. yah, even if i might end up old and alone with 37 cats. and of course, i know i will be complaining to my friends how come i havent met a guy and blahs, but i know i have friends who will listen and hit me on the head and tell me to stop being picky. but then, i will get them back on my side by telling them crude examples of all those things the weirdos that like me have done. i believe my standards arent high at all.



whatever happened to old-school dating? gifts would be nice. guys need to brush up on their casual conversation skills. and stop saying you miss her and then asking if she missed you; she doesnt even know you that well, why would she think about you?! and duh, stop thinking that sacrifices are made! none are made! you wanted to woo her, and then you tell her you sacrificed for her? nonsense! she'll just think "then stop sacrificing and get out of my life!" would you like that?



okay, it is getting so boring eh.

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i think i want to take up argentine tango. it's uber sexy!

i am bored now. bye!

ta-ta.

xoxo.

or maybe chemistry is wearing off by the minute?