to break the myth, after much personal experience, i daresay kissing with braces is just about the same. even the other party said it was normal, though sometimes when his tongue graze pass, it feels rough. but no pain!
there. you have it. go ahead and kiss, people who just got your metals. dont worry. shant elaborate further, i dont kiss and tell. that much. hahhaa.
check this out :
Perfectionism is another major problem related to the achievement need.
The perfectionist and the compulsive striver are alike in that they are more negatively motivated by fear of blame and failure than positively motivated to achieve and accomplish.
Perfectionists differ from compulsive strivers, however, in that they tend to procrastinate and put off work rather than compulsively grind away at it.
Perfectionists fear that they will be blamed for poor quality of work whereas the compulsive striver fears blame for not doing enough work. Since we usually can not do well on our first attempts to accomplish something, perfectionists often put off getting started so they can avoid the problems that go with getting started.
The strategy of successive approximation (gradual improvement through practice) is a good antidote for perfectionist procrastination.Perfectionists often wait until they are forced by an externally imposed deadline before they start to work on a project.
If a perfectionist is capable and intelligent (which they frequently are), their last minute crisis driven efforts sometimes turn out well which, unfortunately, tends to reinforce their procrastinating behavior.
As achievement goals become more demanding and complex, however, the perfectionist's procrastination strategy tends to break down since there is no time allowed for complicated corrections or improvements.
Some procrastinators also hold a belief (usually developed as a result of indulgence as a child) that they will be relieved of responsibility for a task if they wait long enough and that the task will "go away" or be forgotten by others.
THERE.
i conclude I AM A PERFECTIONIST.
no wonder. it explains everything now. i love psychology. (now, why am i in hospitality and resort management instead. but there isnt psychology at tertiary level, no?) i think i'm gonna go take up some extra course on psychology or something. delightdelightdelight.
ah well ah well. i am bored and sleepy and as much as i like holidays, today was so boring i thought my brains rotted alittle more. fine, so my 'plans' didnt exactly do justice to a fruitful day and thus, i brought the decomposing cranial activity upon myself cause i slept alot, read microe but was damn confused and gave up, and got my feelings all jumbled up again. just when i thought it was all over and i have another to delight in (but apparently this one isnt turning out well either, cause it's more of platonic. sighs all round), something like today happen and i left him, as in the mental fancy averted back to the other him. okay, i am a whore, aint i? plus, i have like my friendster inbox (rolls eyes), msn and for some, number, with some guys who, i daresay, are interested to date me. i am not boasting here, but am feeling rather blessed to have a sudden small influx of guys 'seeing' me, albeit the judgement of their erm, calibre. i guess i am no longer invisible? but alas, i dont quite get those i get my eyes set on.
ta-ta.
xoxo.
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