finding myself.

finding myself.

all these future-deciding thingy is making me confuse about what i want and stuff. so, i went on this whole personality quiz-RAMA! just for the heck of it. hahaha.

see some:

1) What do people think of you?

social butterfly
First impression? Outgoing and extroverted, you've got lots of friends in all different groups. People have stereotyped you as a party girl because you're always up for doing something social, and you're the one who always knows the plan for Saturday night. Since you're not afraid to open your mouth to express an opinion or tell someone what you think of them, people feel there's never a dull moment when you're around.

Doesn't sound like the REAL you? You know how you always read interviews with celebrities known for lavish partying and they say, "That's so not me--I'm really down-to-earth"? You may be kind of like that--you feel totally laid-back and yet for some reason everyone thinks you're this wild party girl.
Here's how to let people see more of your serious side.

Tip 1: As great as you are at it, resist the urge to entertain! Next time you want to give your shocking or sassy opinion, pause and count to three. Is it really worth it? If so, go for it! But look at every opportunity as a chance to give a more thoughtful or heartfelt (instead of just crazy!) opinion instead.

Tip 2: Stand on the edge of the group instead of in the middle, at least some of the time. That makes others take the floor, and you'll get to take a nice break from always being the center of attention.

Tip 3: Once a weekend, hang out with your closest friends doing something low-key. Don't feel you're letting people down by not showing up at a party. Sometimes being offstage can remind you what it feels like to be the real you.

What do people think of you?http://quiz.ivillage.com/cosmogirl/tests/December_2006_Get_Real_think.htm



2) What's your metropolitan match?

Paris
Do we hear violins? A daydreamer like you belongs in the land of romantic ideals. High culture and fab art give you the sense that your chic fantasies have come true.

What's your metropolitan match?http://quiz.ivillage.com/cosmogirl/tests/September2006_MetMatch.htm



3) Do you know what vibe guys get from you?***

QUIET CAT
You're a chatterbox with your friends, but the second you spot your crush, bam! - you clam up. Not to worry - there's nothing wrong with that. But if you do want to get rid of the bashful bug, let your crush see the amazing qualities your friends love about you - like how great you are at telling stories. Pretty soon, he'll love them too!

Do you know what vibe guys get from you?http://quiz.ivillage.com/cosmogirl/tests/August2006_Signals.htm



4) Are you too superficial?***

kinda care
Sure, you'll take a second glance in the mirror. But you also know where to draw the line, and you don't obsess over the way you-or others-look. Keep putting that extra effort into looking good if it helps you feel good and gives you a confidence boost, but don't let yourself get carried away.

Are you too superficial?http://quiz.ivillage.com/cosmogirl/tests/December2005_Superficial.htm



5) What's your secret power?

YOU'RE A FREE SPIRIT

Secret Strength: open-mindedness.

Words to describe you:
unconventional, daring, adaptable, optimistic.

Power profile:
Some might call you a rebel, but you prefer "nonconformist." You'd rather follow your whims than follow the dress code, and when Nike came out with that "Just Do It" campaign, you thought they were pitching your personal motto. If the world didn't have people with "it's so crazy it just might work!" ideas like you do, there's no way we'd have cell phones, planes, or Napster. (Thanks!) But since spontaneity is your way of life, you tend to be a tad disorganized (just a tad!). Still, you're a charmer who everyone loves being around and who's known for turning even the most boring situation into a total blast.

How to work it:
You can't just wing it when it comes to real success. The trick to making your multimillion-dollar ideas into real multimillions is the follow-through. So rally your entourage (you know, the people who'll be able to say they knew you when), and ask them to stay on your back about that goal you want to go after-whether it's Hollywood stardom or the dog-walking charity fashion show you dreamed up. Get a friend to help you create an action plan, ask another friend for her input, and so on. The more people who see you're serious about meeting this goal, the more people who will ask you if you've made any progress. You won't want to let them down, so you'll be motivated to keep at it. The bottom line? Marry your risk-taking ability with stick-to-itiveness, because as the saying goes, "genius is 1 percent inspiration and 99 percent perspiration." If you follow through, there's no telling how much money you'll rake in. Um, can we have your autograph now?

Dream Jobs:
Computer-game designer, fashion editor, novelist, actor, stockbroker, entrepreneur, celebrity publicist, international news reporter, personal trainer, makeup artist, musician, interior designer, master chef.

What's your secret power?http://quiz.ivillage.com/cosmogirl/tests/April2005-SecretPower.htm



6) What's your kissing style?

YOU'RE WATER

You spend your days imagining that one soul mate who's out there for you, you sensitive dreamer, you! You're shy about PDA, but when you connect with that special someone, it's like fireworks in private! Lock lips with a Cancer, Scorpio, or Pisces.

What's your kissing style?http://quiz.ivillage.com/cosmogirl/tests/April2005-KissingStyle.htm



7) Whose job will you take?

move it, george clooney
Sorry, is that a spotlight? A charismatic type who thrives at the center of it all, you love attention, whether it's for an amazing paper you pulled together or an Oscar-worthy fight with your boyfriend. You crave (and create!) adrenaline! Next step: Hollywood or on center stage in any career you decide to pursue.

Whose job will you take?http://quiz.ivillage.com/cosmogirl/tests/April2005-JobTake.htm


it's embarrassingly fun to post some of these out. oh well, whatever. why should i censor myself? i shall do what i want. yes, i shall. am so hooked on Smart In A Stupid Way. have you guys heard it yet? really should go see the video at youtube
(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y6fJW1m7Gsk)!! oh-so appropriate for V day! the way they look at each other makes me smile. pure sweetness!!

ta-ta.

xoxo.

roses are red,
violets are blue.
do you spread the love,
or want to squash it with the bottom of your shoes?


happy valentine's, y'all!

i'll be having a lonely one though. maybe me and my jae form. urgh.